What You See Is Not Always What It Seems
By Shiya Tamasao
1. Never try to ask someone to be a mediator to a conflict especially if the person doesn't know the real facts of the story. It doesn't really solve anything, it will only keep you hanging and speechless. (dang!)
2. Sisters or family members are always the first people who'll be there by your side when someone tries to push you down. It's a family instinct and only few people know that.
3. First person to tell his/her side of the story gets more attention because gossip mongers are everywhere. They put oil to the flames and they are the reason why people in a conflict situation tend to do worse things in the end.
4. Social networking sites have limitations. However, sharing your inner thoughts and expressing to the whole world what you truly feel was never crime. After all, that's our freedom of expression. Guilty people are the ones who exaggerate a lot because they always think that you are referring to them. (If names aren't there, than it's not you! lol :D)
5. Interpersonal Communication is always important. There are some matters that can never be talked over the phone or through text messages. Emotions might get in the way and conversations may lead to misunderstanding.
6. HOT HEAD + HOT HEAD= CONFLICT.
7. Being funny or gay is never a problem. But too much of it is not good because you tend to be insensitive.
8. People always have priorities. Understanding other people's priority is a must. You can't just talk to someone and tell him\her to do this and that because we've been doing same thing for you last year. That kind of approach will not convince anyone to jump on your games. Putting too much pressure on someone will always lead to conflict.
9. I don't give a dang about the person offended me posting his inner thoughts and grudges about me on facebook. That's your right and be merry about it. If it'll make you any better than get on with it. (now it's FAIR!) Damages had been done and I don't worry about it anymore because I'm not guilty of anything. I'll live my life and you live yours. LOL :D
10. Despite flaws and all, I'm glad I learned something important. Grudges will only give guilty people sleepless nights. And I don't hold grudges and I'm not guilty of anything. So, for those of you who find this situation crazy yet a bit amusing, let me hear a round of applause.
Did I Strike A Nerve?

lol D:
ReplyDeleteWhat a funny way to describe someone psychotic!
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